This is my answer:
"I say always the same things.
I point to the fact that always Easter we celebrate the birthday here in Turin, although the date is approaching holidays. It is not a neglected child in this and nothing (neither morally nor physically !!!!). I do not know the name of the teacher but I know that "asked Alessandro, his classmate, to marry him and she refused it twice (I gave him some advice on this ...), I know that" Antonio won for him the pokemon in the game " etc.. As you see I know what he tells me and that interests them. Maybe I do not know the name of the teacher or the first day of school because they are things that he does not tell me first of all but two of us we can share if you do not always react so grumpy, as if I asked you and I did not get a picture of XXXX and give it to my parents who wanted to make him print on a shirt (of course we had pictures so we adjusted but perhaps there was one that he would prefer more).
I do not know the because the trivial habits of XXXX I can only know when he tells me, since I can not live with him directly. Too bad that when I call his attention is on the phone and you do nothing to help him in any way to tell me the things that happen. When I ask how was your day at school or on weekends he replies that do not remember, and remember to do it when I insist, he changes the subject and tells me only what interests them.
I see you finally becomes aware of the direct consequences of your decision to go to 800 km away! You can not pretend now that reared him as if he lived to 50 m. I say to you at the time and I repeat today that the decision to leave did not take into account in any way the good of XXXX.
But let me pleasure you!
Tell me how do I make a real father to these conditions. Send it to me in Turin and you will have fun and spend some great weekends together, as indeed we do at Christmas, Easter and summer. Let's say you're making all these excuses because you do not like to take him to the airport!
for you is a sacrifice for me to do 50 km instead of 800 km of rail travel are a walk, no?
If you really want the good of XXXX also think of him really attend the paternal branch of the family. Too bad you
XXXX exploits for what suits you best! In May, however, when I came find it in Latin, XXXX said before that both had agreed in future to take the plane accompanied by the hostess and then there is no problem for him to come to Turin.
You could try sending it to air before saying that XXXX can endure the journey there and back (I'll note that it would be from Friday evening to Sunday evening and from Saturday to Sunday) to Turin once a month at most? Why do you want to deprive the possibility that she may live? Would you rather see his father in a hotel room rather than habitat familiar (and not pull out again the story of your home that is yours and XXXX, I want in my living).
You know, you're not hard on me, but with XXXX, more because he is suffering and will suffer even more.
will suffer more because I could see a Latina in a tired and still a stranger to both, or do a 1 hour journey by plane from Rome to Turin and then spend time in an environment that welcomes him like a prince?
Since the sentence is our law, and the ruling requires the achievement of an agreement between us, with you I try to find solutions that would improve the quality of life for you and me XXXX requiring little effort substantially equal ( go to the airport). "
this is his next:
" So if you celebrate the birthday in turin after .. well, well you can do it for his name day and your compleanno.No? see that you have answered itself.
I did not say that you neglect it, but it just interests. I
my help I've offered several times with sms, tips and information but you have not even used ones so if you want to know ask me and I give them to you seal.
Make a few questions and you care little about the things that are not trivial.
I also think that I do not want accopagnarlo all'aeroperto, and already I've told you already facciao much, I do it with pleasure, but this is impossible for you to understand that why do not you vivi.vedrai YYY what it means, take the nights white, and having to go to the same work (more than week by train), take permits and days off to go and take him to school, the doctors, go talk to the teachers, etc. etc. etc..
Then take days off in order to live them with him and not let even his grandparents whom I never had dubbi.So XXXX that's fine with them and stay with them when he comes up. Let him attend your
is not my problem is with you but tuo.Quando us what you think.
Not because I say so on the whole 7 years repeat the same things but you do not want to accept it, prefer to blame me for the transfer even when the responsibility is yours.
We'll see.
The sentence is the minimum and establishes a rule, if the agreement then there can also be done differently. I
I proposed and I did even more than what is written, is to include Easter, Christmas and summer.
What do you want more, that he is during the months school, no I do not agree.
What else you ask?
But you always ask me?? and what from? You'll see
September 25.
Coming on Friday night .. but you how many times did you ...?? ZERO.
Ask your child more than they're willing to give. Among
had said yes just for that week and he told me and I him, I trust that you have repeatedly said that you would like to down a few days more, that is not right that he is many nights and days to you and you just from him, that if you do not want to stay at home because Green does not want Ivonne, sometimes you can leave them alone and stay with him etc etc.. MA
liquid also saying that this is my fault. I
of my relationship with Brother I'm sure, there is complicity and confidence also differences.
Your and your family are your facts.
cmq not understand why this is the only piece of fatto.Fino when you pretend that I will solve the problems, until will assume a number of cose.Contento you, everyone happy. "
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