The story of air travel with pick-up service is not yet an end. The mother, "mother's heart," after a long tug of war in which it has agreed to be the son of almost 8 years by plane from Rome to Turin with the escort service and even less by taxi from Fiumicino to Latin , has recanted. Textual
his words:
"after evaluating your proposal more closely, compared
myself, I am here to inform you that I do not feel safe and secure as
mother, in XXXXXXX against travel to be undertaken alone with strangers
before then by air taxi, "
After 2 weeks since we agreed to air travel. For the taxi we had found a solution, but" the heart Mom "does not feel safe. So moved his fears to the child and the child will grow without the ability to face life and the problems alone, so there's the mom who fixes them to him!
He continues:
" The best for him is certainly not at this age to travel alone, like a parcel
, however, and of course repeat my willingness to make sure that
XXXXXXXpassi with you as long as you want and which is but XXXXXXXX
or must travel with you or me, or as a family, for the periods in which
decide who should come to Turin. "
them travel with a parcel is not good, so pick it up and bring Latin America must do the father, not her. And when the time comes when he can travel alone, and then you may consider as a "parcel"?
the end:
"I know, I expect the usual replies on your part to that statement but
my decision is made "first in consciousness," convinced to do the best for
XXXXXXXX and fulfill my duties as a better mom. "
Bella consciousness that of their pigs to convenient because there is always someone who makes up for its shortcomings. But where was the conscience when he brought his son 800 km away from his father when he was 1 year and a half? It 'easy to pull off the mother's heart and conscience when convenient and mothers, I hope not all teachers are in this situation.
At this point, I said
" dropping by taxi, which was a solution to your unwillingness to take him to the airport (I in your shoes I would be available to accompany him, on the other hand I would like to be Caselle each way for his return), frankly I do not understand why even Alitalia has become unreliable. Can you explain? We really earthen figure it out!
There is another thing that I do not understand your decision with regard to the fact that it took you several months to realize your insecurity and transfer it to XXXXXX. Instead of supporting and encouraging him to face life are limiting growth, while advancing the excuse of wanting to protect. I'm not sure in the long run your decision to do good XXXXXXXX!
At the end you, as usual, after we have now provided and organized the whole trip (I had even come to buy airline tickets and book a taxi) in total safety, because I also I want to ensure that XXXXX is not understood anything, you have succeeded to ruin everything and decide otherwise for both.
Now, since you say that XXXXXX has to travel with me, you or a family member ask you the following things: 1
. to take him to Turin on December 30 (then I'll carry him on January 5)
2. indicate the age where you think it can travel alone XXXXX
Finally, I did not understand the phrase about the "ephemeral value" of the thoughts of XXXXX: it is obvious that the parents decide for their children until adulthood, even if the children should be against the decisions of the parents have to adapt. It 's like saying that you must send to school a child who gives advice not to go there because it's more fun to play games at home. Educate not mean to be condescending in all and for all!
"
And his answer blank, nothing cerebral
" I am available to meet you as I told you to get to Heathrow if you want to use the plane to go down with XXXXX.
I believe that the duty of a parent is so, what experiences do to their children but must also evaluate the circumstances and pre-tempi.Se you run these assumptions are no longer experiences but forcing harmful. This would not help growth, but only fear.
I never had any resistance when he came to you and I have even advocated that your meetings are more frequent. I believe that Alitalia's service is now premature to XXXXX, I reviewed and re-evaluated and now would be a ahead of their time in sopra.Non I can tell you where XXXXXX is obviously a priori pronto.Per taxi service but I do not think at all feasible as we had proposed.
You sacrifice so much for the children and are sure to travel with him does not fall within the scope of the sacrifices for you, but in pleasure. My
arrange them as I have already expressed to you and confirm the Jan. 5, at the times that I had reported, riepto Fiumicino.Se should change to get him to let me know and I'll see what I can do.
The "ephemeral value" is what you tell yourself in your last lines, I agggiungerei educate and grow in the right way to protect a child helping in the gradual formation of individuality, not expected to be contented in everything of course. "
And in the end, for now:
" I think your answer is devoid of content. You said he had "reviewed" and "re-evaluated" the service as a result of which assessments Alitalia YOU have decided that it was premature to XXXXXXX air travel to these conditions. Again, if there is a service for "unaccompanied minors" from 5 to 14 years, that other parents use, means that there are no security problems. So, would you be so kind in making your share of the content of these evaluations? In practice, based on which elements of your evaluation?
And also, why do not you think the proposition of the taxi service? Even this is not enough for me "why not" or a "why XXXXXXX is small." Again there are all the safety precautions.
Come tell me that traveling is a pleasure, not a sacrifice? You do not know what it means because they do not EVER take him to Turin, or on weekends or during the holidays (I'll warn you: do not quote me on this summer because you came to Turin to see the only daughter of Simon). If you really think so, why do not you come and take him to your resume to Turin by train? Because it is so much fun! I've already said that to me is a sacrifice of health and grit my teeth, so do not consider it a pleasure. A pleasure instead XXXXXXX is to be with the week of Christmas or New Year, go around or playing at home with their grandparents. I still do not understand why we can not all be better off letting them live in just one hour's flight XXXXXXX, but in your assessments have also considered how much you're bored XXXXXX to travel by train and how often the question "what is missing" is the first leg is to return?
Bringing up children, and therefore their growth does not mean stifling as well as protect them does not mean throwing them in the middle of a street without means, but it means accompanying them in the experiences they want and they must do to learn to live in society. And accompany the experience means to follow him, guide him, make him feel safe and secure in his early experiences alone. A parent's fear that deprives the child of the experiences that other children are not a good educator. How you tried to reassure XXXXXX in flight, eliminating all possible fears and perhaps increasing the curiosity of this experience? I tried, but not enough for your influence on him is far superior to mine. Certainly if what your fears are transmit our son will not go very far in life.
We ask you to give me answer where you think XXXXXX age can travel by plane with the escort service because you do not know me say that you should know when the response is ready XXXXXXX denotes satisfy him in everything (which you say yourself to be morally harmful). About dis-educate, but XXXXXXX still sleeps with you or in the Latvian as he told me he started sleeping in his bed since last September? For these
Christmas once again shake my teeth and I will travel round trip by train, hoping not to get bronchitis more like last year and my health problems do not worsen during their journeys.
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