Thursday, November 18, 2010

Watch Green Green Uncensored

Open Letter to a mother without values \u200b\u200b

be available to fit a child with his father does not mean giving all their availability.
Be prepared to do 100 km to the airport to accompany a child when his father makes it 700 does not mean giving all their availability.
Be prepared to pay the car for the weekend when the father is 1600 km away by train to visit his son in a city where few facilities and has no knowledge of friends or relatives does not mean giving all his availability.
Give your availability means
1. cause the child to grow even though his father has to move 800 km away
2. to ensure that the child attends assiduously father's family (brother, grandparents, cousins and friends)
3. accompany the child first leg (make the 800 KM) or return (division of time and travel expenses)
4. raise and educate the child without increasing her fears, but rather falling and exorcising (whatever the age of the child because it is a matter of years but of conduct educational)
5. not claim that the sacrifices become pleasures (be a journey of 1600 km there and back within 24 hours can not be interpreted as a pleasure)
6. try to communicate more about their child on the phone with his father, in stimulating conversation and not letting the child talk on the phone with his father while watching cartoons or playing the Nintendo DS
7. give clear answers, not evasive so that people can organize everything because the world does not revolve around her
8. not meet all the demands of the child and then say that goes along with them, because children understand how to fool their parents
9. not retract its decision because every time the children learn from the behavior of their parents and this helps to grow properly
10. Last but most important of all, which now can no longer remedy is to think that every action has consequences and that we think with great foresight when making decisions about their children: moving at 800 km from the father its child is one of those decisions if they had been well reasoned by a selfish mother would not be taken for the welfare and growth of the child.

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